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I’m convinced that one of the reasons the church has been culturally inert is because we don’t have a lot of laymen who are interested in the whole big ecosystem of culture and all its interrelated aspects. Culture is the way our humanity in all of its forms and expressions is lived out, so understanding culture is necessarily interdisciplinary. You can’t do it in a piecemeal way.

mha_LogoThat quote is from an interview entitled, The Well-Informed Generalist: Why We Should Listen to Ken Myers. I have listened to Ken Myers through Mars Hill Audio for at least 15 years, off and on, when a pastor in my first church turned me on to him and his audio interviews, kind of a prolonged NPR-type of interview from a Christian perspective, if you have ever listened to them.

Myers, in his book All God’s Children and Blue Suede Shoes: Christianity and Popular Culture, helped me to understand in written form how Christians can and should understand and interact with culture, instead of either adopting it whole-hog on one extreme, or throwing culture out with the bath water at the other extreme.  Read how their website describes Mars Hill Audio:

MARS HILL AUDIO is committed to assisting Christians who desire to move from thoughtless consumption of contemporary culture to a vantage point of thoughtful engagement. We believe that fulfilling the commands to love God and neighbor requires that we pay careful attention to the neighborhood: that is, every sphere of human life where God is either glorified or despised, where neighbors are either edified or undermined.

Suffice it to say, I agree wholeheartedly with the title of this interview, we should listen to Ken Myers as a thoughtful and astute assessor of culture from a Christian perspective. He has interviewed guests from the author Mortimer Adler to Barbara Dafoe Whitehead and Jens Zimmerman, and every letter inbetween.

I encourage you to go to their website, and download a sample audio journal or choose from a variety of bonus interviews that are free. I think you will be challenged and hooked. You will hear from a variety of guests on different topics that you have never heard discussed before from a Christian perspective.

It is better to go to the house of mourning
than to go to the house of feasting,
for this is the end of all mankind,
and the living will lay it to heart.
Sorrow is better than laughter,
for by sadness of face the heart is made glad.
The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning,
but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth.

Better is the end of a thing than its beginning,
and the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit.

Qoholeth, the writer of Ecclesiastes, sees with great wisdom in Ecclesiates 7.  The house of mourning and bereavement helps us to see the lot of every person, in the end, before we die. Thus we all need to take it to heart and consider what our end on this earth will be.  Although there is an end on this earth, it is not the end. Eternity begins at death, which will it be?

How is the heart made glad by sadness of face? This I believe only happens for the wise, who take death to heart and consider their end.  The gladness comes from a security of heart in the knowledge of eternity with God for one who trusts Him as their Lord and Savior.

The end is better than the beginning, because although the beginning can be filled with excitement and anticipation, the end brings reality and wisdom. Seek that wisdom that comes from God and his Word, the Bible.

What are you giving your kids at dinnertime? I am not talking about food, well not physical food, but spiritual food. Dennis and Barbara Rainey, in their devotional book Moments With You, write about the importance of dinnertime.

She rises also while it is still night and gives food to her household.
Proverbs 31:15

RV Brown was the sixteenth of 17 children. As he and his siblings arrived at the dinner table, he never understood why his mother stood in the corner with a bowed head. When he was older, he learned that she was praying that the butter beans and cornbread would make it to one end of the table and back without running out!

Of all the rich memories forged in his childhood home, this was the best: dinnertime. Everybody gathered around. Talking, listening, and enjoying the laughter and noise of family togetherness.

He can still hear the older kids talking about the work they’d been doing that day. Or about what had happened at school. Another might tell a story he remembered from his stint in the army. And before they finished, R.V.’s daddy, who couldn’t read or write, would lean back in his chair and begin sharing from his heart in that soft, arresting voice of his. Little bits of wisdom. Nuggets about how to treat people. Pearls about how to always give your best, settling little problems by using some patience and understanding and not hurting anybody.

I hate to think what the pace of life in today’s families has done to memories like these. How many kids, when they grow up and look back on their childhood, will reflect on how much it meant for them to wolf down a fast-food hamburger in the car between ball practice and youth group? I think that what we stand to lose by consistently eating on the run may be a generation that has learned to value activity over relationship … and continues to feed self when they could be feasting together.

Give your children something they’ll always remember: Give them dinnertime.

Discuss

Be honest about your dinnertime habits. Are they what they should be? What’s one thing you want to do differently about your dinnertime?

Pray

Ask God to help you place more value on being together than on doing it all.

This is one sample from their devotional book for couples. I encourage you to both think about these thoughts and consider also your devotional life with your spouse.

A Game of Hope

This is a great story and video off of Tony Dungy’s website, All Pro Dad.

Some people might be surprised, some even taken aback by putting these two words together because parenting seems to be practical, whereas many think doctrine is not.

I was reading a book by Martyn-Lloyd Jones this morning, The Life of Peace, which is on Philippians 3-4. He was commenting on Philippians 4:1-3, in which Paul encourages two women in the church to get along, but he does so in a thoroughly doctrinal way.

For the truth about the Apostle is that whether he is stating doctrine, or whether he is applying it, he is always doctrinal. He is incapable of handling a problem except in terms of doctrine, so it really makes very little difference whether he is asking us to look at the great declarations objectively, or whether he is putting then in a practical, and immediate and subjective, manner.

What this means for us as parents is this:

  1. We need to know God and His Word. The Word is the basis and guide for parenting.
  2. The answers for the issues we deal with as parents are found in God’s Word. Paul encouraged the two women to get along because they were both “in the Lord,” and God is not divided. Find your common cause in Him, don’t be divided, Paul instructed. So Scripture will guide us in relationships, in conflict, in decisions, in all we encounter. Doctrine is foundational to parenting.
  3. This is because God’s Word is practical.

Let me encourage you to be in the Word and allow the Word to work through you.

neil postmanNeil Postman wrote an excellent book entitled, Amusing Ourselves to Death: Public Discourse in the Age of Show Business, in which he highlighted the fact that Huxley was right about the future, not Orwell.

In order to understand what I am saying, and to get his point, read these great comics that summarize his points.

(HT: here and here)

Don Carson, in a talk on the Scholar as Pastor, made this excellent point on an issue that I have often struggled with as a pastor.  It is worth reading, especially if you try to keep your devotional reading apart from your study to preach or teach.

Fight with every fiber of your being the common disjunction between “objective study” of Scripture and “devotional reading” of Scripture, between “critical reading” of the Bible and “devotional reading” of the Bible. The place where this tension usually first becomes a problem is at seminary. Students enter with the habit of reading the Bible “devotionally” (as they see it). They enjoy reading the Bible, they feel warm and reverent as they do so, they encounter God through its pages, some have memorized many verses and some chapters, and so forth. Seminary soon teaches them the rudiments of Greek and Hebrew, principles of exegesis, hermeneutical reflection, something about textual variants, distinctions grounded in different
literary genres, and more. In consequence, students learn to read the Bible “critically” or “objectively” for their assignments, but still want to read the Bible “devotionally” in their quiet times. Every year a handful of students end up at the door of assorted lecturers and professors asking how to handle this tension. They find themselves trying to have their devotions, only to be harassed by intruding thoughts about textual variants. How should one keep such polarized forms of reading the Bible apart? This polarization, this disjunction, kept unchecked, may then characterize or even harass the biblical scholar for the rest of his or her life. That scholar may try to write a commentary on, say, Galatians, where at least part of the aim is to master the text, while preserving time for daily devotional readying.

My response, forcefully put, is to resist this disjunction, to eschew it, to do everything in your power to destroy it. Scripture remains Scripture, it is still the Word of God before which (as Isaiah reminds us) we are to tremble, the very words we are to revere, treasure, digest, meditate on, and hide in our hearts (minds?), whether we are reading the Bible at 5:30 AM at the start of a day, or preparing an assignment for an exegesis class at 10:00 PM. If we try to keep apart these alleged two ways of reading, then we will be irritated and troubled when our “devotions” are interrupted by a sudden stray reflection about a textual variant or the precise force of a Greek genitive; alternatively, we may be taken off guard when we are supposed to be preparing a paper or a sermon and suddenly find ourselves distracted by a glimpse of God’s greatness that is supposed to be reserved for our “devotions.” So when you read “devotionally,” keep your mind engaged; when you read “critically” (i.e., with more diligent and focused study, deploying a panoply of “tools”), never, ever, forget whose Word this is. The aim is never to become a master of the Word, but to be mastered by it.

You can view or listen to all of the audio or video from the conference The Pastor as Scholar, and the Scholar as Pastor: Reflections on Life and Ministry with John Piper and D.A. Carson.

(HT: JT)

I am always looking for graduation gifts to give students, and I happened on some good deals from Desiring God.

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Or the Don’t Waste Your Life book & dvd set for $15.74.

Finally, for those who like sermons on tape, there is the complete mp3 set of Piper’s sermons on Romans (224 messages) for $25.50.

Go to the Desiring God website for more information on the graduation sale.

Desiring God interviewed Paul Tripp on the question of obedience, how God motivates it and how we should and should not use threats and punishments to motivate obedience. Both answers are worth listening to, but let me highlight them here as an encouragement to delve further.

We all struggle as parents with how to get our children to obey and do what we ask them, when we ask them.  Tripp makes to point that it’s not just obedience that we are after, or God is after, it’s about our heart. The Israelites were often rebuked not because their sacrifices were not right, but because their hearts were not right.

Tripp says this about our parenting:

If a parent is yelling at a child, it’s not because they want their
hearts. They want to create enough fear in that child so that they’ll
do what they want them to.

If I had the heart in view, I would never motivate that way because
it’s damaging to the heart of a child. God’s warnings, on the other
hand, are never damaging to the heart. They’re after the heart, because he knows if he doesn’t have my heart, he doesn’t have me.

Obedience in our children is not just found in the act, it is found in their heart. It’s OK, according to Tripp, to use threats when you have to get obedience quickly, to use threats. But it’s important to follow that up later. Here is one example.

But I know, because we’re in a service of worship, that I’ve got to
take this child out so that we can deal with it and bring him back in.
So I say, “You need to be quiet. If you’re not quiet, that’s a direct
disobedience to Daddy, and we’ll go out, I’ll paddle your little
bottom, and we’ll come back in again. And hear me: Daddy is willing to
do this forty times, because Daddy won’t lose, because Daddy can’t
lose, because Daddy represents Jesus. And you will not be the Daddy of
Daddy.”

But I know we’re not done. And so, maybe Sunday afternoon, I’m going
to get with that little one and say, “Let’s talk about what was going
on in that service.” And I’m going to get after the heart.

He also addresses proper rewards, rewards related to character.

And I think there are proper rewards, rewards that are character rewards, not materialistic rewards.

For example, I could say to my fifteen-year-old son, “Look, Mom and Dad
have made you come in at 9 o’clock over the last year, but we’ve just
seen real responsibility, real wisdom in your life. So we’re going to
extend that a couple hours, because we really do believe we can trust
you.” That’s a reward, but it’s a character reward.

It’s different than saying, “You want that mountain bike? That
mountain bike can be yours. All you have to do is…” Because that
takes that heart in a different place. He may submit to doing X just
because there’s a physical thing at the other end of it, yet no desire
to obey at all.

It would be worthwhile to read and listen to both posts, on God’s motivation and on threats and punishments.

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